SACRED TEARS

God designed us so that when we experience intense stimuli, we can release this amazing clear liquid called Tears.  Even the tears we shed when we are happy have a different chemical make-up than the tears we cry when we are sad.   Tears from grief come out as an emotional response and relay our feelings about what we are going through.  More importantly, grief tears are a visible form of releasing emotional distress.  In essence, the emotions that flow out of us in the form of tears are a sacred kind of holy water.  These sacred tears flow out of a place in our bodies where we physically see -- with our eyes – and convey such a powerful message that comes straight from our souls - a place we can't see.  

No one can fully understand what it is like to grieve until you go through it.  But in God’s wisdom, God made sure that when we are grieving, there is a way we can release that distress within us.  It’s a known fact, we emotionally and physically feel better after a good cry.  That is why tears that flow from our grief are really and truly an affirmation of hope.  Hope tells us that no matter what, God bears our grief with us, knows how hard grief is on us, and is always there for us in our sorrow.  

Psalm 56:8 says, “You [God] keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book”

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