ALONE AND LONELY


Alone and Lonely.  Two words with similar letters, but with distinct different meanings.  Lonely is this vast feeling within self that feels abandoned and no one is there to fill it.  Alone is a space of solitude that seeks a deeper peace.  

Grief attracts both and both can become hidden in one’s unconscious.  It’s important to bring them forward by becoming consciously aware when you are feeling alone or when you feel lonely and to understand the difference between the two.  

Seek Others when you feel lonely.  

Seek God when you feel alone.     

In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, LORD, make me dwell in safety

Psalm 4:8


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